Awkward moments of 2013
The Fellowship of the Ring (2001)
the internet & sexy friendships/relationships:
i will preface this by saying that i fully understand that many people are in long distance relationships..and that the internet is both a blessing and a curse.
two who are perfection for one another..except for the cursed distance.
and you might have every single component of a deeply solid relationship..without physical touch, which is understandably frustrating.
but at some point..you have to meet in real life..it has to translate to reality.
and then decisions have to be made.
yes, clearly ,.the world is complex.
and people have responsibilities and constraints.
what you don’t want, if the two of you do meet.. is for the relationship
to slide into what is best termed as a series of long standing one night stands..as frequent flyer miles get accumulated..where people touch & let go..and a pattern gets established.
because if there is truly love..and you genuinely can’t live without one another..
then..you should be together..no matter what…
let nothing stand in the way of that love.
jobs can be relocated, homes can be bought & sold..
but genuine love is once in a lifetime gift.
i hope that you make the decision in love’s favour.
They’ve captured the beast